Unconditional love is overused these days .
Small introduction both to agree on what we are talking about:
Unconditional love as a concept comes to us from psychology, theories of object relations (eg. Bowlby), and is opposed to conditional love which is a typical strategy of large maggiornaza parents.
The conditional love is that "I love you if ... ab c. .. "and" I love you if ... xy z ...", and since love is the most important thing a parent for a child, the child will do that affects the parent's love - and I'll stop here without going into the books that were written on the implications of this.
Unconditional love is that "I love you anyway" not "if", if there is a wrong behavior or something that does not fit, you question the behavior and not the person - and Anyway does not retract his love for the person himself.
Unconditional love is very much in fashion in the various current "New Age".
He talks a lot, maybe most believe they practice it, but there are some fundamental questions about it, which probably Many even ask: How
put into practice the unconditional love? We are actually in a position?
How can I make sure that my unconditional love is not conditional love disguised as unconditional?
How can I be sure that my concept of unconditional love is not conditional (excuse the pun, but there is) from my intellectual-historical-cultural horizon?
My personal answer to the first two questions are:
try to do my best, but deep down I do not know, and indeed I have strong reservations about how I lead on that front - I and the human being in general
My answer to the third question (to which socio-cultural psychologist) is:
impossible, indeed, they are reasonably certain of the opposite
I do not go well here, just a little 'food for thought for ... Continue
reflections you for you ...
intellectual humility ... wake up in the morning and remember intellectual humility ... Otherwise, as always in the spiritual currents, all good to feel that far, so good and so right ...
[The idea of \u200b\u200bthe post came to me thinking about all the times in which some American told me about unconditional love ... all due respect to the United States, but blessed, its lack of cultural insight (ie: think how they see them things is the only right way, they see a relative rather than absolute - there also realize their foreign policy is not it?). For this person, add in background American, disguised as a conditional love unconditional love for lack of personal insight ( despite his many other talents) ... and the result was so disastrous that borders on the comic ...]
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